Learning Process

How often , I wondered were my carefully laid plans going to be shattered by the superior force of circumstances.Whether you call it fate or supreme power , that is the ultimate decision maker of our life . I do not say whatever we plan or decide is destined to shatter down but it often happens with all of us that it get fulfilled when you don't expect it to occur. Once I heard from a nobel lady that if a ripple of thought arises in our heart and mind then it will happen sooner or later be it good or bad, as it has its own timing to happen but we the little creature of the Almighty God become restless and thinks that our dream is painted white.
So, i concluded life is full of experiences, good and bad but when i came across some of the worst of it I also passed the golden ring of life as I kept on turning on the pages of the books written by some of the holy people of earth tob regain my inner strength . Those books made me feel, like gold is beaten in fire to make it pure thus my life is made to pass across bad pahase of it ,only to make it more strong and rich.And It gave me immense satisfaction to think that God gives these so-called bad days because He loves us, He actually want us to go through the rough & tough road only to make us pure . He want us to lean toward Him and know the truth of life.
The Holy mother says, whenever you are in trouble distress , just say to yourself " I have a mother". Just murmering this sentence "I have a mother to take care of everything" boost my innerself. Our mind is like a mad elephant , it rushes with the wind . and whenver I feel my mind stirred by undesirable thoughts and yet I want to calm myself , I pray to Him earnestly . He purifies the then disturbed mind and solve my doubts. It happens with me very often .
I stay in a joint family and thus has to adjust with minor discontenment frequently , though some times I see fault in others but then again a preaching of the Holy mother makes me feel ease with the situation. She says when our mind is stale then only we keep on fining faults with others and first result of this is our own mind gets polluted. When does anyone become happy with finding faults with others ? It only results is creating lots of unpleasant stories at the back of our mind.And thus to regain peace of mind I gave up fault -finding , surely I will not deny with the fact that this inbuild habit of human being keeps on peeping time and gain.
Learning from the preaching of holy people is an experience in itself and it is very sad enough to acknowledge that it often happen when we cross the tiring moments of life. This is a process in it-self. A learning process.